Originally Posted by
SparkleKitty 
The really changed guy will understand and respect your need for space and recovery even after it inconveniences him. Even after he is forced to be alone with himself.
Wise words ^^^
If he is only being nice to get you to stay, then nice will disappear when you leave (or soon after). If he is really changed, he will stay changed, no matter whether you move out or not.
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