Congratulations!
A BIG WIN in the battle with the beast!!
Would it be possible to sit down with your Mother and explain how you feel? If you could just get her to listen to what you have to say before she responds, maybe you could get through to her.....
All I know is this.... now that everyone is gone I sure miss them. NOTHING is more important than family and your time with them is limited, hopefully your Mom will be able to listen to your plea for a peaceful Christmas.
I hope you can manage to have a happy holiday season.