Liz,
I really admire your strength and courage in following what is right for you! I can relate to what you are saying about your son, my son also enjoys my H so much and I feel that sense of fear also, that he will be upset and not understand why mom and dad being apart may be the best for all parties involved. I hear the tell me what to do line a lot also, and that just sets off the warning alarm in my head. I do not want to be accused of being controlling or a harpy, I try to simply state my needs and he can figure out how to do it. To me, the answers are in his literature, with his sponsor and in his rooms, if he wants to find them he will. I will pray for you and wish you all the best!!
