Tf, I hope you are feeling better and got some rest. I dont post much here, but I read. I felt sad for you putting up the Xmas tree by yourself while your able daughters showed no interest.
in the interest of them growing into self sufficient, productive adults, you have t o ask yourself where are they going to be in 2-3 years if mama keeps giving them everything?
Mama is going to be enmeshed in credit card debt and they will still be expecting you to fix their lives.