Originally Posted by
Upsetnneedhelp 
The safety of children comes down to the mother. That is more important than anything. A mother knows best.
Can we agree to change your statement to:
"The safety of children comes down to the non-alcoholic parent. That is more than anything. The non-alcoholic parent knows best"
I mean no offense...but your original statement might ruffle the feathers of some of us fathers that have AW's. Gender-neutral means everyone's feathers stay happy. =)