Dear Ache,
Humans can read each other, so if what you're putting out there is that you think those people are "damaged", no, they won't want to come over to say hello or ask how you're doing...women in particular, so don't expect to get some hoochiecoochie if that's the energy you're putting out there...and I'm sorry if that sounded harsh-just being painfully honest, which we all need at times.
Congratulations on 35 days-maybe it's now time to work on some of the other stuff that kept you drinking in the first place, the social anxiety, for example...
Just my .02 for whatever they're worth to you.
June