I am heading to my husband's company party in about an hour. Again, there are a lot of big drinkers in his executive circle and I have always had a few glasses of wine with them. I have no desire/plans to drink. I told my husband that I am going to say that I have a big day of Christmas chores tomorrow, which I do. The progress here is that I think even a month ago, I would be in knots worrying about what everyone would think about me not drinking. I am really not that worried and I feel really relieved about not drinking. I would really pace myself at these events in the past, because our livelihood relies on it and then I would come home and plow into the wine bottles. Still, wish me luck!