I do feel cheated. I think "selfish b*tch" was the worst I got. I always let the "wh*re" accusations roll off my back because I knew for certain that it didn't apply to me. But I was raised to always think of myself as the one who needed to sacrifice for the good of the family, so being called selfish hurt. A lot. I now realize that it's not me, but I still question my motives when I go to do anything for myself, even if it's something to provide self-care.
I count my blessings that my AM hasn't been the type to call or email to the point of harassment. I thought for sure she would call me whenever she got totally plastered, but it hasn't happened. Not a peep in over a year.