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Old 12-12-2013, 05:44 PM
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autan
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You need to accept that in your present situation, you cannot cope. Its unreasonable to expect anyone to be able to turn things around in your present condition.

When your sober, hopefully you are now.

Try to imagine yourself in the third person. Take a look at yourself drinking and try not to judge. See that the drink isn't part of the problem, in fact it has no power except one, its there.

So to make a small change, rid yourself of any bottles of booze and focus your efforts to not buying anymore. This will inevitably reduce the number of drinks you have to nil, pretty quick.


The side effect, will be instantly noticed, because you will have slightly more money in your pocket.

Next ask yourself, what is the best use of that money, maybe pay a bill off, maybe spend it on transport looking for jobs. Perhaps you just want to build up a small pile of cash over the coming months. Its not nice being skint, but now you can see a way out of it.

Tiny steps achieve more than grand proclamations.
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