Originally Posted by
Justwantnormal 
I'll have everything I want to say on repeat in my head from 7am - 7pm, but as soon as the kids are in bed and we're alone it's like I freeze and don't say anything. And round and round we go.
Hey Justwantnormal.
I totally understand how you feel about not saying anything. I'm exactly the same, anything to avoid the inevitable argument. I always have everything in my head in a clear way ready to say and then as soon as I start he throws the usual excuses and turns the blame back to me, so generally I just don't say anything.
I too am holding onto some hope that my AH will decide to quit and will, that things won't be worse, but scary and horrible as it is, we have to accept that there is a possibility they won't and we need to work out how WE are going to look after OURSELVES.
Strange that I find it very easy to give this advice out but not necessarily easy to take myself!
