Like Dee, I also spent months constructing these very elaborate explanations for why I wasn't drinking. And, like most elaborate explanations, it was totally unnecessary because normal drinkers and non-drinkers actually do not obsess about alcohol at all.
Amazing, eh?
On a recent business trip I ended up at a party where there was a ton of drinking going on. I normally do not put myself in these situations but this one sort of couldn't be avoided. So I put in a brief appearance and when I was offered a drink I simply said, "I don't drink."
And, dammit, did that ever feel good. And right. Because it is the truth. I don't drink.
Period.
Best part? No one blinked and I do not have to remember any elaborate stories the next time I see them. I just don't drink. I am a non-drinker.
Imagine that...