Originally Posted by
HappyAccidents 
That's a really good but tough question.
Probably regular exercise to be honest. It takes my mind off things and the physical transformation that can happen is incredible. Also, having a lady friend forgive my past indiscretions that i couldn't bear to lose again. Practice, like anything you'll get better with practice and trying again. The more you try the easier it will get and time will fly much, much faster.
Thank you for your tips. All good advice. And, for someone who used to live to exercise, that is something that (while it seems like a mountain to climb right now with kids, working full time, homework, and all the other "excuses" life can bring) it is probably the one thing that will get me headed in the right direction. I am glad you have a lady who stands by you and is supportive of you. That is a keeper. Keep it going. And, congratulations again. The greatest gift you have given yourself. Life again.