I'm trying. It's hard. I packed almost a month ago now (time flies, even though it feels like days are sloooow). We talked for a couple of weeks but he was pretending like everything was fine. After an argument and a period of silence, he's back texting/calling -saying he's going to change, but it won't be easy, and he won't get clean if I'm not back in his life.
I'm very lost, and I guess the only advice I could tell you is, saying he needs help is not enough. Mine has been telling me he wants to quick drinking (and drugging) for more than a year, but never took actions. That's part of what I keep telling myself to avoir running back in his arms.