Originally Posted by
underoath Does anyone here use 12 step programs and do they work? I have so many flaws, self consciousness, resentments, I care too much what others think, the list goes on. These are but a few defects of character I need to take care of if I want to enjoy sobriety...
Everyone has defects of character. No one is perfect. Just do your best and don't beat yourself up. You are worth more than that.