wifeofanACoA----The way I see it--he most likely trying desperately to get you to switch back to the status-quo--that is where he was comfortable. He has picked up some doubt in you--and he needs to erase that. Of course, you gave him some hope of changing your mind when you answered him with"I don't know--we"ll see"
He has been used to weilding the power in the relationship---this is undoubtedly very uncomfortable for him, right now. He will manipulate hard--very hard.
dandylion