Lillamy,
It's amazing how a little perspective, a simple change of a lens, can make such a huge difference.
I am someone who, as a professional, packages information into concise, clear and sometimes technical little bundles. The reaction from those to whom I present this information is often, "That's it!" or "Exactly" and then it is done and we move on. So, putting words to something actually does make the task go away in my work life.
I, for one, have applied that system to what my boys (especially my oldest) and I have been going through. No wonder it often feels like we are getting no where.
Thanks for sharing this. It certainly lifted my spirits too.
Hugs,
MamaKit