achb...
At first I didn't want to get caught up in this thing you and Dax have going on....but I must admit all this talk about cheating with AA members is starting to get to me. My recently sober ABF has been attending a 10:30am meeting everyday this week. He has been leaving 10 minutes earlier than usual the last day or two, instead of me thinking he is just anxious to get to the meeting, I assume he is anxious to get there to see "someone." I have had serious reservations about his fidelity in the past so all of this talk about it happening "so frequently" in AA is a bit unnerving for me. You are right Ahcb, I'd rather worry about the possiblity of an affair when and if it happens and I really should be encouraging him in his quest. Life is much happier with him sober than drunk in a bar with countless opportunities available to him when he is not in a good frame of mind.