I have been wondering what I want for a few years and still don't have much of an answer.
My single mom group (nothing to do with addiction, just a group for single moms) organized a seminar in the spring in which we were invited to create a vision like it is described here:
Magic Happens!! - YouTube
It didn't really help me find what I want but it did help me find a bit of a path of things I wanted to do...