Well it is my experience of 26 years in and around program people- they do cover for each other. They excuse looking the other way when unacceptable behavior by the excuse of 'working their own program and not interfering with anyone workingh theirs- even if unacceptable things go on. Our counselor, also in AA. will not go to a certain closed club because so much unacceptable behavior goes on there. She said she has several couples with the same problem- a recovered alcoholic cheating with someone in the program. In 9 years no one ever gave me a hint . But EVREYONE knew what GOOD friends my husband and this women were. Remember AA recommends woman only and men only restionships.
yeah. dax