The one thing that I did when I decided to get sober was to tell everyone that I do not drink! I was such a good "closet-drinker" that no one even suspected why, but now everyone knows to NOT invite me to happy hour because I will not go. At the company Christmas party last year, I told the boss that I do not drink so I was not attending. He was a little agitated, but he got over it. I refuse to be around alcohol and people that are drinking. I refuse to be tempted!