Tigers---I forgot to say what Kudzujean brought to light.....YES!! By all means practice good birth control!. Life is hell living with an active alcoholic---you can multiply that several times, once innocent children are drug into it. You should read some of those stories!!
One of the worst things you can do for a child is pick the wrong father for them.
Maybe m1k3 is not a poet---but, m1k3 IS "Truth-Teller Extrodinare"