Originally Posted by
DesertEyes
Seeing how I spent my entire life trying to manage the world into fitting my expectations, and _never_ asking for help, the "light bulb" went off. My "alanoid-ism" is based on me trying to be some kind of super-person. To be over-dependable, over-protective, over-involved, super-efficient, fixing _everybody's_ problems, etc. etc.
If I can control _everything_ about the world around me then I will never be hurt, I will perfectly safe.
To me that sounds like I was trying to become my own "Higher Power". No wonder my life was a mess. I must have had a huge ego and never even knew it.
Mike
Wow...this is some pretty awesome insight. I have copied this into my daily readings.