Hi bird
I'm off to visit friends for Thanksgiving, but wanted to acknowledge your reply before I left.
I do have a lot of thoughts for you on this, since I lived through it for at least 17 years of my 27 year marriage.
I don't ever want to see anyone go through this. It is horrible.
Oh, but the holidays. My ex disappeared once for over a month. (I do mean exh, we lived together), he showed up Christmas Eve morning to go to with me to see my family. Was surprised that I was angry, after all he did come back.
My birthday, also in December. After a week or so of disappearing, came back to take me out for my birthday. I went. We came back home, he started a fight, and ran away again. Eh, I burned my journals, this could have been the same year !!!!!!!
I'll talk to you some more when I get back tomorrow.
Have a Happy Thanksgiving, enjoy yourself, and get him out of your head for at least today.
(((((((((((hugs))))))))))
amy