Originally Posted by
Mirage74 
Yea, moving away would be a good idea. I actually just got back from a counseling session. I basically ripped my family the whole time. He said the same thing, basically stay away. He also said I'm somewhat immature, which I already knew, but it still stung a little. Drinking for 20 years I guess contributes to that. I know I've got some work to do. But it felt pretty damn good to dump all that out and be somewhat validated. I would recommend it if you're up for it.
Careful about physically moving away -- the ol' "geographical cure" never works, because no matter where you go, there you are! There's no such thing as making a new start and not having to do the work. Sure, if your family lives up the street and is in the habit of knocking on the door unannounced, that would be a bit much -- but even there, just don't answer the door.
In any case, good luck -- don't let them rule your life. Tune 'em out!
T