should i just let her go?
i've been with my wife for 14 years and started abusing alcohol around the time i met her and finally quit 7 months ago. she moved out with our three boys because she did't want our children to have to live with the person i was. the first couple months separated were rough and now we live in different homes and still see each other almost every day and my relationship with the boys and my wife are getting a lot better. i know i promised her sobriety many times in the past and thats why shes not with me now because i never kept that promise. my wife and i are still close and we are still intimate and have a lot of family time these days but its still with us living in two different homes. she has her guard up really high this time and is hesitant on taking me back for good and i understand that. im just wondering should i just let her go and keep proving im a changed and sober man and see what happens or just go with the flow and wait for her to make a decision on our future?