Originally Posted by
Leana 
So he can commit to not drinking but not commit to getting better!
That was it exactly! I know it's not a popular term around here but "dry drunk" is the only comparable term I know.
He didn't display that behavior daily, but the pressure would build & build & eventually he would just blow up in his King Baby way & blame everything on external forces. He still attended meetings, etc. but it was just all the surface stuff, you know? I have posted a couple of times about being concerned that he wasn't "working" the steps, etc. but I learned to keep my side of the street clean & wait for more to be revealed on the other side so I wasn't obsessing over it.