I honestly don't think he's that smart.
He is in outpatient therapy, he is going to meetings, he was in rehab for 30 days and he went 100 willingly. He's still an ass. I don't know if we will make it or not but if I were him, I'd be buying me flowers too and a whole lot more.
You aren't a jerk for saying what you said at all. I feel like defending him just a little though. I don't know...
Trust me I don't love the tulips at all.