hopeful, is your oldest daughter old enough to keep money and a prepaid cell phone on her during visitations? I don't remember who it was that suggested that in another post, but I think it's a good idea. If she notices him drinking or feels uncomfortable, she could call you. My kids are old enough that I don't have to worry about that. Plus, my husband is the drink at home type.
Even when you know it's the right thing to do, it's still just so hard to end it
He was my
best friend. We haven't been that close in a while but it's hard to imagine your life without this person who's been there (whether good or bad) for over half of your life.
I'm really sorry that you have to make these decisions, too
Sucky choice one may be better than sucky choice two it still feels like a sucky choice. We can only hope that it's better on the other side. I'm holding fast to Jeremiah 29:11 and Ephesians 3:20. Prayers & blessings.