Even at their age I'm sure your daughters know that your ex is insane. After following your story it seems that your husband has the whole court system in his back pocket. Like you said, he drinks with the local police. He seems like he is a real charmer. Almost sounds like a sociopath. Thank goodness, you left when you did as you may not be here today writing if you stayed. I would press to have 100% custody of the kids because what you describe is just a dangerous situation.