Originally Posted by
Ruby2 
I am only up to my eyeballs in debt because of my past drinking and his continuing drugging. Sigh.
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I cannot stress this enough. Get out, get out, GET OUT! I have been where you are and I hmm hawed to the point where he damn near put me in financial ruin.
It sounds like you are fully taking care of yourself financially, so please do. Do not let him suck you dry. I know this is easier said than done, but do yourself a favor and leave (or make him leave).