Co parenting and sharing time w someone who doesn't have the ability to care for ones kids is scary. No doubt about it. And it sucks.
But it sucks less than knowing my kids who only get one childhood, are living in a war zone and that's what it was when I was w their dad.
I kept waiting wanting a choice c bc I didn't like either staying or leaving as options but finally I decided my comfort had to not matter and something, no matter what it was, had to happen to get my kids away from the toxicity.
It's not easy to decide when that will be. I've been where you are and just the fact that you're thinking about it is good....
Hang in there.
Originally Posted by
thislonelygirl 
I am at the point now where There is Only one thing i tell myself that keeps me staying and that is the "time" and i have it "planned" out holidays make it worse. I feel like i keep pushing back when that time is BUT i have told myself every single one you listed and i read your other post about co parenting.scares me as well.