That's a great idea Ms Pink! Thanks!
I know we aren't supposed to concern ourselves w others but it's kind of heart wrenching to imagine a kid being alienated from their parent bc of the other parents anger. I get being angry but it pains me to think of the kid being hurt in the process.
I have all the reason in the world to be angry at xAH but I still would never intentionally alienate our kids from him. I watched my mom do that w my brothers and our dad and they are all a mess as adults bc of it. I guess its a subject hitting close to home and when I see it happening I have a hard time w it.
Parents taking their resentments out on their spouse by using kids as pawns is just wrong.
I may need to take a break from that meeting or maybe try harder to remind myself that we are all at different stages. Probably I should have sympathy for the guy rather than be annoyed.