Fandy, I am almost, just about there. My family and friends would be overjoyed. I would most likely be a lot happier or less stressed. There is some shred holding me back. I filed for divorce once before from him while separated but they couldn't serve him and then we reconciled while he was on an extended period of sobriety and I was still drinking.
I want to get a little more sober time under my belt. If I feel myself slipping back, he is out, sooner than later.