Originally Posted by
Ruby2 
He got the hundred because I gave him sixty for what was a legitimate reason at the time. He gets fired, doesnt need the sixty for the legit reason, comes home and scours the house and finds one blank check of mine and forges it for 40 dollars cash.
Ruby,
Congrats on your sobriety. My XA stole credit cards and my vehicles but never forged a check.
It's hard to establish boundaries with an active A who already knows that if they yell, scream loud enough you will give in. You are training your A to abuse you to get what he wants and it won't ever stop because you gave him the change and you didn't call the cops over the forged check.
Alcoholism is progressive and it will get worse.
You sure you don't want to stop the madness and let him sober up in jail? Life is a series of choices and he broke the law and your trust.
It is your decision and we won't judge you but if you want peace and quiet and be able to work your program in peace just pick up the phone and report the check.
You are in my prayers and take care of you!