Positive reinforcement is a great thing for me when i get the focus correct .
Alas i am all too fond of letting my ambitions run away with me and end up feeling hopeless in the face of them . So for me positive reinforcement has to be related to the positive action and decisions i'm taking now with a relatively narrow focus looking forwards .
I try very hard not to make a burden of my ambition or goals, it should bring hope, excitement and optimism not desperation .
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