I need to get this out and see if anyone has any advice. My family treats me like crap, have for years. Whether I deserve it or not is another issue, but I think their reluctance to stop is long since overdue. They are very blatant about it, they show no remorse or guilt for their behavior. They almost take pride in it. This makes it doubly insulting and offensive. The worst part is, they expect me to spend time with them. This makes it triply offensive. If you keep kicking someone, they're not going to want to come around. If you kick them and expect them to keep coming around, what does that make you? An awful person?