Yes, Marcher, it's quite possible I'm overanalyzing his actions. And the consensus seems to be to tell him I've stopped and let him know how he can support me. Someday, I suppose I'm going to have to do that.
But in the past, asking him for support has not gone well and I'm afraid of what might happen in this situation if it doesn't. It could get really unpleasant and I'm not in an emotional place where I can handle that right now. I have to focus on my sobriety. When I get a few months under my belt and I feel more confident in my ability to manage his response, I will say something.
Thanks for your input.