His opposition to therapy is
quote: He doesn't need some feminist fanatic telling him all his wrong doings as a man/husband/father, nor does he want my head being filled with these ideas.
He 100% supports my never drinking again, I can say that whole heartedly, however I think in his perfect world the only change that he'd like to see in me is that I don't drink while remaining a mute doormat.
In other posters similar threads I've advised letting the marital relationship issues simmer on the back burner, while one works on themselves. But that pot can only simmer for so long, before its empty and evaporated.
Has anyone had success rebuilding their marriage post sobriety? He does not drink, he isn't abusive, he does love me, we really just don't LIKE each other at the moment
Other then all this mess I'm quite happy at the moment, maybe because I've slowly detached myself from caring!