((isitme))
I really hate you are living that way - it sounds miserable and familiar ~ part of living with the active disease.
My exah was like that sometimes ~ like if he could point out all the things I did wrong, it made him feel better about himself. My sponsor suggested I remember it's not really about me, but about how he feels about himself inside. Which is not always easy when you are being crawled on the carpet for not using a napkin or a coaster.
Keep taking good care of you and try to detach from his negativity
pink hugs to you too!