Yes, think this out and realize you cannot rescue him from this. I think that is what I tried to do. That my poor husband was so ate up w. addiction that he would do such thing. I was alarmed and thought I was in charge of getting him help! Maybe if he had to spend some time in jail instead of running off to rehab (vacation) he would have thought twice about drinking and expecting everyone to rescue him all the time.
Now that I don't do it, his sister picked right up, good little codependent that she is.
Breathe...process..take your time and realize these actions were not yours and you don't have to do anything but just that...process.