I'm so grateful for every single one of you. In the past I would have already commenced running around like a chicken sans head & instead I'm just sitting here trying to process it. I know that I don't have to find a solution for me *right now*. Luckily, I control a lot of my work flow so I can be distracted a bit today.
I know he has been desperate to solve our money problems, but I can't get over this lack of morality. If he was as sober as he claimed to be with the exception of his known slip up, it's even more disheartening.
DD is going to be positively devastated.