For me, well I don’t want the past with my husband, I want a future…All that if he could just be like he was before … with his past just being part of his problem, even when the problem wasn’t so obvious at times. The past was part of mine as well, and until I fixed it and healed the future wouldn’t have held much more than a life on repeat. I don't see much promise for a good life stuck in the pain of the past.
If any of that makes sense.
But also remember your promise, your chances for a wonderful life are not dependent on him. A success story is not measure in anything but how each one person gives themselves a chance, anything after is icing on the cake.