You made the right choice in my opinion. You value your health and family more than drinking or pleasing others who drink. Your "Friend" obviously chooses alcohol over the former.
Keep in mind that your friend is quite possibly an alcoholic too, and as we all know to well, when we are drinking we don't think straight. I'm not suggesting you even attempt to make amends or anything of the sort, but remember how we acted towards others when we were drinking - just about any of us could have been "that guy" when we were active drinkers too.
Move forward knowing you made the right choice, and that some choices in sobriety are going to hurt a little. But it's for the best.