Originally Posted by
autan 
I went to shake his hand goodbye and he was having none of it. I told my Wife, what had happened and she said, you have to put yourself first and your family first. I intend to and then I also came to the conclusion that I have to learn to be selfish and protect my sobriety.
Autan - That sounds awful and I am angry that you went through that with those people. I hardly think you are the one being selfish, if your "friends" don't have a desire to support you being sober.