Thanks Chaili, the thing is they know commenting just accentuates the problem, so I think that they really just don't want me to gain weight!! I have always weighed about 113 pounds, at the height of my drinking problem I got up to 135 lbs., when I got sober I dropped to about 108 and now I am up to 120 pounds. The thing is they know talking about it will send me into a spin and that's what they are choosing to do...