Very good advise. Maybe it is a fantasy. See I met him when he was sober and we got along awesome. We still do get along great. Yes I probably enabled him but I also probably saved his life because he could have ended up in jail or worse death. So yes I might me living a fantasy a fantasy I am not willing to let go of right now.
And since me and his grandmother are the only 2 supporting him right now I will continue to support and love him until he tells me to leave him alone which he has not.
He has continued to ask me for help and I will never turn down another addict or alcoholic when they ask for help.
But I do agree to a point with you, but the best thing for him would not be for me to cut off contact with him he definately wants me in his life.