Dear Tattoo, grief work is a process, and it's called "work" for a very good reason. There will be days you can get by and days you feel you can't even put one foot in front of the other. Questions to think about - how are you eating? how are you sleeping? how are you functioning at work? If none of this is improving, it may be helpful to talk with a doctor for a temporary antidepressant. Your heart, body and mind have been through such trauma, it does take time and sometimes medication to start the healing process. Wishing you peace today.