Not drinking will be the key to rebuilding and building good relationships.
I had to learn that some relationships are beyond repair; some relationships could be rebuilt, but had to be let go because sobriety had to be the priority; and some could be repaired and grow into something better. Sometimes these repairs happened quickly and sometimes slowly. I had have to focus on what I can do to repair each relationship, usually by repairing me, but also recognize when there is nothing I can do.