Originally Posted by
mybrother 
I am having a hard time letting him decide b/c his decisions always end in disaster.
This is how my mom thinks and my brother just got out of prison in Sept.
Unless you change this way of thinking soon:
He will continue to use your love and concern as weapons against you.
He will continue to quote from the "What addicts say from prison" guide and you will believe it.
He will infiltrate your happy home and cause, at a bare minimum, marital problems.
Getting out of prison proves nothing.
There is way more evil and drugs in there than "Lord literature".
When you get around to putting your serenity guard up, don't be quick to let it down.