Originally Posted by
anchorbird 
Thank you all SO MUCH for your posts! I am using his comment as fuel to stay sober!
That's the spirit and congratulations btw
Whatever he thinks is his business and his issues whether he is a drunk who lost his play partner, a control freak losing his control mean or a codie at his wits end. Your business is to take care of yourself and stay sober
Ps: he might also be afraid of change, with you drinking he knows what to expect, with you sober your relationship is bound to change. Change can be really scary for a lot of people. Keep doing what you are doing